We all have so much going on. Some are working remotely, many tutoring or counseling virtually, some are in the raw trenches at hospitals, and worse, others are home schooling kids! Kidding aside regarding the kids, we are all bumping along day by day and waiting out this pandemic. We’re all tiring of daily cooking, cleaning and laundry, yet we press on. 

Initially I responded to a few opportunities to tutor and volunteer hands-on in our most dire and hopeless areas, only to be put on-hold for current restrictions. Mostly tipping the decision scale was my son. He’s my top priority and responsibility; I must keep us both healthy during this time.

In lieu of hands-on volunteering, I intentionally decided to do something kind for someone else, often a stranger, every day since this quarantine erupted. I’ve committed to the small things. To the best of my ability, of course. 

I list these to share some ideas not for any applause. And don’t think I’m striving to appear some Mother Teresa, I am enjoying wine and binging on Netflix as much as any other quarantined fellow neighbor. 

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Place some food and water on a bus stop bench for a homeless person

Put a bag of toiletries out in the city, trust me, they will be picked-up 

Text/call a neighbor and offer to pick-up some groceries and leave them by their door

Next time you order Uber Eats or a pizza, tip the delivery person a $20. They are often working a 2nd job and could use some extra gas money. The smile on their face will be worth it.

Most of us have more downtime at home, consider writing some Easter, Passover or spring cards ‘just because’ and send to family or friends. Many places of worship are closed and regardless, everyone loves a hand-written note.

Zoom birthday calls or happy hour with friends are uplifting and fun 

Text or call several of the older folks you know and check in on their health. This week, I called/texted my dentist of 20 years and actually one of the doctors that delivered Ravi- just to check-in and see if they are healthy. It means a lot. Everyone likes to be remembered, especially during these uncertain times.

Pull out old photo albums, share with your children their early years and facts about their family and ancestors

Pray for people you know

Pray for people you don’t know

Do what you can, no matter how small

Be okay with yourself during this time

Remember the small things are often the great big things. 

Be well, Christine